"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok guys, this is one aspect of girls that really bugs me and can ruin my game.

we all know how a girl can be all about you one day then give the cold shoulder the next.

how are you supposed to act accordingly? if she's being real attentive/interested it's a whole lot easier to suck her into your reality and bump up the attraction.

NOW when's she's acting dissinterested especially out of the blue, what should you do? also mimic this? i tend to try changing her mood with unpreditable conversations and the like, but i am not sure this is the best action. should i just end the interaction, and play her mood harder till she initiates next time? can't put my finger on this one. suggestions please. thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OOOR maybe forget about her for the day, I mean she is in a bad mood let her be dont let her drag you down with her! If you see her and she is in a bad mood and you try to cheer her up and she still is in the same behavior leave, there is no point in staying around someone that is in a bad mood even after you try to cheer her up. Now if you do try to cheer her up and she smiles and shows that she is getting a better attitude then you can stay but if she is still pouting and blowing you off then say you gotta go and you will see each other some other time and then walk away if she ask why then say you dont have time to waste on a girl that is in a bad mood and that you tried to get her out of her funk but to no avail. Good luck and update.
 
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How do I know if she's in a bad mood or if for whatever reason she lost interest in me? Leave her alone in both cases?
 
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OneEyedJack said:
It is called a take-away. Walking away from a situation.

If she REALLY DOES have low IL, there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO to change that.
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Well if she then sees you walking with another girl, I bet her IL goes up.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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interesting question. I don't know what to say. On one hand, by mimicking her, you are entering her reality, on the other hand you are also gettin rapport. By not mimicking her, you are staying in your own reality but you are also not doing anything about the situation.

Just try them all out and tell us how they work out
 
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