"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok guys, this is one aspect of girls that really bugs me and can ruin my game.

we all know how a girl can be all about you one day then give the cold shoulder the next.

how are you supposed to act accordingly? if she's being real attentive/interested it's a whole lot easier to suck her into your reality and bump up the attraction.

NOW when's she's acting dissinterested especially out of the blue, what should you do? also mimic this? i tend to try changing her mood with unpreditable conversations and the like, but i am not sure this is the best action. should i just end the interaction, and play her mood harder till she initiates next time? can't put my finger on this one. suggestions please. thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OOOR maybe forget about her for the day, I mean she is in a bad mood let her be dont let her drag you down with her! If you see her and she is in a bad mood and you try to cheer her up and she still is in the same behavior leave, there is no point in staying around someone that is in a bad mood even after you try to cheer her up. Now if you do try to cheer her up and she smiles and shows that she is getting a better attitude then you can stay but if she is still pouting and blowing you off then say you gotta go and you will see each other some other time and then walk away if she ask why then say you dont have time to waste on a girl that is in a bad mood and that you tried to get her out of her funk but to no avail. Good luck and update.
 
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How do I know if she's in a bad mood or if for whatever reason she lost interest in me? Leave her alone in both cases?
 
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OneEyedJack said:
It is called a take-away. Walking away from a situation.

If she REALLY DOES have low IL, there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO to change that.
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Well if she then sees you walking with another girl, I bet her IL goes up.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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interesting question. I don't know what to say. On one hand, by mimicking her, you are entering her reality, on the other hand you are also gettin rapport. By not mimicking her, you are staying in your own reality but you are also not doing anything about the situation.

Just try them all out and tell us how they work out
 
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