"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok guys, this is one aspect of girls that really bugs me and can ruin my game.

we all know how a girl can be all about you one day then give the cold shoulder the next.

how are you supposed to act accordingly? if she's being real attentive/interested it's a whole lot easier to suck her into your reality and bump up the attraction.

NOW when's she's acting dissinterested especially out of the blue, what should you do? also mimic this? i tend to try changing her mood with unpreditable conversations and the like, but i am not sure this is the best action. should i just end the interaction, and play her mood harder till she initiates next time? can't put my finger on this one. suggestions please. thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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OOOR maybe forget about her for the day, I mean she is in a bad mood let her be dont let her drag you down with her! If you see her and she is in a bad mood and you try to cheer her up and she still is in the same behavior leave, there is no point in staying around someone that is in a bad mood even after you try to cheer her up. Now if you do try to cheer her up and she smiles and shows that she is getting a better attitude then you can stay but if she is still pouting and blowing you off then say you gotta go and you will see each other some other time and then walk away if she ask why then say you dont have time to waste on a girl that is in a bad mood and that you tried to get her out of her funk but to no avail. Good luck and update.
 
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How do I know if she's in a bad mood or if for whatever reason she lost interest in me? Leave her alone in both cases?
 
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OneEyedJack said:
It is called a take-away. Walking away from a situation.

If she REALLY DOES have low IL, there is NOTHING YOU CAN DO to change that.
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Well if she then sees you walking with another girl, I bet her IL goes up.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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interesting question. I don't know what to say. On one hand, by mimicking her, you are entering her reality, on the other hand you are also gettin rapport. By not mimicking her, you are staying in your own reality but you are also not doing anything about the situation.

Just try them all out and tell us how they work out
 
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