"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seen a hottie in the past who now looks like crap?

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How many of you have seen or known a "hottie" from the past who now looks like crap? Ever been in "love" with the "perfect" woman from afar or in real life and seen her years later and thought to yourself: "WTF was I thinking?!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes, my man yes o! I remember this girl I was talking to in college some years ago. I think I asked her her and her response was "I have a boy friend". Well, I saw her recently and I was disgusted by what I saw and it just amazed me how people can let themselves just go like that.
 

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karma is good!

the girl who fuc.ked me over (we all have one of those) used to be a super hottie, i looked her up on FB - now she looks just kidna "meh"

but maybe really i should thank her for ultimately getting me into being a better man with good game....?

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was also a super hottie from my high school (she actually fancied me for a bit but i didn find out till way after and i wouldnt have known what to do anyway) is now a chubby one!

guys isnt it amazing how many girls go "down hill" very quickly after finishing school??
 

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spinaroonie said:
Men age like wine.

Women age like milk.
Ain't that the truth. You should see all my co-workers' wives. Ugh. I'll say under my breath, "Is This your Wife!?" - signed, Happily Single
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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oh man, too many to count! what's even funnier is back when they were hot they rejected you. now that they're all fat and not so hot they want to be with you. haha!
 

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This works in reverse too.
I remember several girls in high school who were considered ugs, but then a few years later transformed into some pretty smoking hot babes. Meanwhile, the cheeleader who was the prettiest girl in school had put on major pounds and blimped out. Sometimes life has a funny way of evening things out.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
How many of you have seen or known a "hottie" from the past who now looks like crap? Ever been in "love" with the "perfect" woman from afar or in real life and seen her years later and thought to yourself: "WTF was I thinking?!"
You were thinking that you wanted to bang her when she was in her 'hot' stage , and now her "inner beauty" doesn't get you hard?
This is why guys like you (and me ) are called "shallow" :up: .
 

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zekko said:
I remember several girls in high school who were considered ugs, but then a few years later transformed into some pretty smoking hot babes.
the ugly ducklings...
 

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zekko said:
This works in reverse too.
I remember several girls in high school who were considered ugs, but then a few years later transformed into some pretty smoking hot babes. Meanwhile, the cheeleader who was the prettiest girl in school had put on major pounds and blimped out. Sometimes life has a funny way of evening things out.
I've actually been going out with someone just LIKE THIS.

Upon the topic of high school, she frowned. I was curious since I assumed her being "beautiful" meant that she had a relatively enjoyable high school life. Apparently high school had been REAL tough on her.
She showed me a picture and sure enough, lo and behold, a woman who I wouldn't have touched with a 10 foot pole. She'd been locked into a few lockers by jocks that had nothing better to do.

They missed out. All she needed to do was let her hair down, get some contacts, lose the coke-bottle thick glasses and get some new clothes.

You're right, the universe definitely has a way of making things fall into place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I dated a stripper for about a year. This was roughly 15 years ago. She added me on Facebook a few months ago and she is dog rough now. She looks like she couldn't care less about her appearance, which is odd as she used to be obsessed with how she looked.
 

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The point of this thread is what you may have thought was a diamond as far as looks in the past may be just a lump of coal.

That is if you only care about looks. Like other posters said this can work in reverse. Get to know women before you put the pvssy on a pedestal or decide they aren't up to your 'looks' standards.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
The point of this thread is what you may have thought was a diamond as far as looks in the past may be just a lump of coal.

That is if you only care about looks. Like other posters said this can work in reverse. Get to know women before you put the pvssy on a pedestal or decide they aren't up to your 'looks' standards.

same thing could be said about women thinking of us in the same way.
 

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It happens quite a bit. Especially in the US where people just put on weight randomly.
 
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This happens every now and again, but my radar for hot chicks is a little sharper than most. However, when it does happen it certainly is a tragedy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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most of the time its ugly girls that turn hot but theres a few hot girls from back in the day that are trash now.
 

garruk

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actionjaxson said:
most of the time its ugly girls that turn hot but theres a few hot girls from back in the day that are trash now.

truth! back in high school there really arnet that many hot girls. but now hot girls seem to be way more abundant.
 
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