Naughty Ninja
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How many of you have seen or known a "hottie" from the past who now looks like crap? Ever been in "love" with the "perfect" woman from afar or in real life and seen her years later and thought to yourself: "WTF was I thinking?!"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Seen a hottie in the past who now looks like crap?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
jafyk
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Yes, my man yes o! I remember this girl I was talking to in college some years ago. I think I asked her her and her response was "I have a boy friend". Well, I saw her recently and I was disgusted by what I saw and it just amazed me how people can let themselves just go like that.
kingsam
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karma is good!
the girl who fuc.ked me over (we all have one of those) used to be a super hottie, i looked her up on FB - now she looks just kidna "meh"
but maybe really i should thank her for ultimately getting me into being a better man with good game....?
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was also a super hottie from my high school (she actually fancied me for a bit but i didn find out till way after and i wouldnt have known what to do anyway) is now a chubby one!
guys isnt it amazing how many girls go "down hill" very quickly after finishing school??
the girl who fuc.ked me over (we all have one of those) used to be a super hottie, i looked her up on FB - now she looks just kidna "meh"
but maybe really i should thank her for ultimately getting me into being a better man with good game....?
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was also a super hottie from my high school (she actually fancied me for a bit but i didn find out till way after and i wouldnt have known what to do anyway) is now a chubby one!
guys isnt it amazing how many girls go "down hill" very quickly after finishing school??
spinaroonie
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Men age like wine.
Women age like milk.
Women age like milk.
Poonani Maker
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Ain't that the truth. You should see all my co-workers' wives. Ugh. I'll say under my breath, "Is This your Wife!?" - signed, Happily Singlespinaroonie said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zekko
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This works in reverse too.
I remember several girls in high school who were considered ugs, but then a few years later transformed into some pretty smoking hot babes. Meanwhile, the cheeleader who was the prettiest girl in school had put on major pounds and blimped out. Sometimes life has a funny way of evening things out.
I remember several girls in high school who were considered ugs, but then a few years later transformed into some pretty smoking hot babes. Meanwhile, the cheeleader who was the prettiest girl in school had put on major pounds and blimped out. Sometimes life has a funny way of evening things out.
jophil28
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You were thinking that you wanted to bang her when she was in her 'hot' stage , and now her "inner beauty" doesn't get you hard?Naughty Ninja said:
This is why guys like you (and me ) are called "shallow"
.kingsam
Master Don Juan
the ugly ducklings...zekko said:
Kailex
Master Don Juan
I've actually been going out with someone just LIKE THIS.zekko said:
Upon the topic of high school, she frowned. I was curious since I assumed her being "beautiful" meant that she had a relatively enjoyable high school life. Apparently high school had been REAL tough on her.
She showed me a picture and sure enough, lo and behold, a woman who I wouldn't have touched with a 10 foot pole. She'd been locked into a few lockers by jocks that had nothing better to do.
They missed out. All she needed to do was let her hair down, get some contacts, lose the coke-bottle thick glasses and get some new clothes.
You're right, the universe definitely has a way of making things fall into place.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I dated a stripper for about a year. This was roughly 15 years ago. She added me on Facebook a few months ago and she is dog rough now. She looks like she couldn't care less about her appearance, which is odd as she used to be obsessed with how she looked.
Naughty Ninja
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The point of this thread is what you may have thought was a diamond as far as looks in the past may be just a lump of coal.
That is if you only care about looks. Like other posters said this can work in reverse. Get to know women before you put the pvssy on a pedestal or decide they aren't up to your 'looks' standards.
That is if you only care about looks. Like other posters said this can work in reverse. Get to know women before you put the pvssy on a pedestal or decide they aren't up to your 'looks' standards.
new_hotness
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It happens quite a bit. Especially in the US where people just put on weight randomly.
The Piano Master
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This happens every now and again, but my radar for hot chicks is a little sharper than most. However, when it does happen it certainly is a tragedy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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most of the time its ugly girls that turn hot but theres a few hot girls from back in the day that are trash now.