"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Seems women these days intiate the sex and more agressive thanever
- Thread starter verysuave
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
verysuave said:
Not to sound ****y but if I get a chick one one one with no CB's or whatever
It's a wrap......
and you don't look nothing like the "internet geeks" or your typical "I.T. looking guy" im assuming
and no need to say any sexual innuendo or crap like that right? maybe say a little hard to get crap
Bluesteak
Don Juan
Lol I can see the IT guy from The Office being a PUA.verysuave said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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That said, a DJ is neither a wimp nor submissive. They may very well initiate if you do what you're supposed to, but there is no need to wait for them to initiate. Be a man, control your desires, but do not ignore them.