"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Seems women these days intiate the sex and more agressive thanever
- Thread starter verysuave
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
verysuave said:
Not to sound ****y but if I get a chick one one one with no CB's or whatever
It's a wrap......
and you don't look nothing like the "internet geeks" or your typical "I.T. looking guy" im assuming
and no need to say any sexual innuendo or crap like that right? maybe say a little hard to get crap
Bluesteak
Don Juan
Lol I can see the IT guy from The Office being a PUA.verysuave said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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That said, a DJ is neither a wimp nor submissive. They may very well initiate if you do what you're supposed to, but there is no need to wait for them to initiate. Be a man, control your desires, but do not ignore them.