"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Seems that some of you are breaking the first rule"

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I'm curious. How many other people have you told about this site, or just DJing in general?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I never talk about it except with my wings, but I've known and seen some of the gurus actually talk about the game in front of a girl or even tell her about it. Some dig it, some don't.
 

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I admit, I told about this site to my friend, but his AFC is veeeeeeeeeeery strong in him. I didn't tell him that much about, I just wrote addres to this site......I doupt if he was here for only one time.
My next friend I told about this site, he was here, but he don't like our principles.......

But this site needs new members. Without new members it will slowly run down. Where are Pook, Anti-dumm (did I write it right?) and ... another great DJ? They used to be here so often and now... New members know Poot only from bible. So we are getting old and soon we will leave this site, too. This site needs new members! (I don't mean to overdo it ;) )
 

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I didn't mention the site to anyone, however I did give my friend a tip on how to keep conversation going with a girl (which I think doesn't apply to rule breaking). I told him to ask open-ended questions instead of yes/no so the girl will do the talking and then after she replies to pick up upon things that she mentions and ask her more about it (this technique has been posted here a while ago).
 

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Unfortunately, i broke this 'rule' recently too but ONLY because my friend was in major AFC mode.

Was actually out with him last night and he said that all 'this stuff' has changed me and its not the 'real' me.

I see this site as making you emotionally stronger and more stable - it also teaches u to out yourself before women and to RESPECT yourself! IT DOES NOT BRAINWASH YOU!

:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What some people may not realize that a lot of this “seduction” material is just a repackaging of what Naturals do. Excluding the hypnosis yada yada, but the game is really structured and played this way. Hotties know this, Players knows this, so why the **** doesn’t the rest of the world know this?

Hanging out with some naturals, I have definitely noticed that they use a lot of the same tactics that they simply discovered on their own while gaming hotties. After a lifetime of hanging out with hotties, they’ve intuitively discovered what it takes to trigger a girl’s buttons. Sometimes they don’t have the entire package and skills down, but they’re doing a whole lot more right than they are wrong. They are simply Unconsciously Competent instead of some of us who study this who are Consciously Competent.

For the AFCs who haven’t hung out with and bagged hotties, they have to learn this skillset and attitude. You emulate success and what works.
 

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You know I never mention it to anyone now that I think about. My friends and I discuss this stuff to just about as much detail as is listed here but unless they stumble across the site on there own i doubt i'll ever mention it to them.

It's just something that never comes up.
 
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