"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DavenJuan said:
diddo..

and unfortunately i have used you as a trollshield. I have started mulitple threads that are nothing more than me mindumping my thoughts on a particular event, conversation, interaction, etc. somewhere in the middle of me typing i decide to reserve my thoughts and delete my thread (most of the time)

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It's pretty bad when you have to have trollshields!

Especially from good posters like Latinoman, who obviously just doesn't get it. His last post says that I whine, but I challenge anyone to point out where I was "whining". Venting for a second. Maybe. Whining? Never.

And the stuff about a negative approach and being unhappy, and a false sense of rating, well, I'm done trying to explain myself. This site has become counterproductive for me, and it's too bad cause it kind of helped me through a bad time and now that I'm getting things on track it would be nice to be able to continue to sound off about whatever and bounce ideas back and forth, but I guess it isn't in the cards.

I'm not going to lie. I am here for myself and what I personally take away from this, and lately it's about 15-20% informative discussion and 80-85% useless off topic material.

That is why I will be respectfully bowing out now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you've left the site before but come back. Don't go!
 
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