"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seem like our relationship is about gone

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Which sucks bad. Because we have so much fun when we are together. But the fact that I get NO weekends off at Domino's Pizza, I hardly ever get to see her. Once a month mostly. One month we went without seeing each other.

Talking on the phone is getting really REALLY dull. I mean, keeping up conversation seems forced. I tried not talking to her for a few days, but that didn't really help. Got us some good talking in for about 10 minutes then it sorta died again.

What I wanna know is, what do I need to do to spice this up? Just work my hardest to see this woman?

btw, we don't go to the same high school

I'm pretty sure I'll just be quitting my job next week. Maybe that'll help. It REALLY sucks not having any weekends off (especially when you're still in high school). Plus I hustle for money, so leavin this minimum wage bullsh*t won't hurt me at all.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MAKE time for her.

Yeah, you might have 3 hours after work to sit at home...why don't you hang out with her more often instead of complaining you have no time. Any time you spend on your ass is a lot of time wasted, and don't start feeding me the story of how you have school and homework and stuff, because I know damn well you sit there sometimes going..."Duhhh...what am I going to do for 2 hours".

If you don't put work into a relationship, then it really will be gone.
 
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Bigg Boss said:
Which sucks bad. Because we have so much fun when we are together. But the fact that I get NO weekends off at Domino's Pizza, I hardly ever get to see her. Once a month mostly. One month we went without seeing each other.

Talking on the phone is getting really REALLY dull. I mean, keeping up conversation seems forced. I tried not talking to her for a few days, but that didn't really help. Got us some good talking in for about 10 minutes then it sorta died again.

What I wanna know is, what do I need to do to spice this up? Just work my hardest to see this woman?

btw, we don't go to the same high school

I'm pretty sure I'll just be quitting my job next week. Maybe that'll help. It REALLY sucks not having any weekends off (especially when you're still in high school). Plus I hustle for money, so leavin this minimum wage bullsh*t won't hurt me at all.
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If the relationship is dead it's a done deal. Fvck it and move on.

I'll take a triple cheese and sausage. Light on sauce please.
 
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