"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Seem like our relationship is about gone

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Which sucks bad. Because we have so much fun when we are together. But the fact that I get NO weekends off at Domino's Pizza, I hardly ever get to see her. Once a month mostly. One month we went without seeing each other.

Talking on the phone is getting really REALLY dull. I mean, keeping up conversation seems forced. I tried not talking to her for a few days, but that didn't really help. Got us some good talking in for about 10 minutes then it sorta died again.

What I wanna know is, what do I need to do to spice this up? Just work my hardest to see this woman?

btw, we don't go to the same high school

I'm pretty sure I'll just be quitting my job next week. Maybe that'll help. It REALLY sucks not having any weekends off (especially when you're still in high school). Plus I hustle for money, so leavin this minimum wage bullsh*t won't hurt me at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MAKE time for her.

Yeah, you might have 3 hours after work to sit at home...why don't you hang out with her more often instead of complaining you have no time. Any time you spend on your ass is a lot of time wasted, and don't start feeding me the story of how you have school and homework and stuff, because I know damn well you sit there sometimes going..."Duhhh...what am I going to do for 2 hours".

If you don't put work into a relationship, then it really will be gone.
 
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Bigg Boss said:
Which sucks bad. Because we have so much fun when we are together. But the fact that I get NO weekends off at Domino's Pizza, I hardly ever get to see her. Once a month mostly. One month we went without seeing each other.

Talking on the phone is getting really REALLY dull. I mean, keeping up conversation seems forced. I tried not talking to her for a few days, but that didn't really help. Got us some good talking in for about 10 minutes then it sorta died again.

What I wanna know is, what do I need to do to spice this up? Just work my hardest to see this woman?

btw, we don't go to the same high school

I'm pretty sure I'll just be quitting my job next week. Maybe that'll help. It REALLY sucks not having any weekends off (especially when you're still in high school). Plus I hustle for money, so leavin this minimum wage bullsh*t won't hurt me at all.
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If the relationship is dead it's a done deal. Fvck it and move on.

I'll take a triple cheese and sausage. Light on sauce please.
 
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