My girlfriend broke up with me about two and half months ago. We hung out that day, I kissed her good-bye and got the phone call like 3 hours later. It was kinda a shock to me and I was devastated at first. She gave me the whole 'I can't only date one person in my life...I wanna be on my own for awhile to figure out who I am and if we're meant to be together, everything will work out in the end.' I have taken it for what it's worth. I told her that we can't really be friends right now because we obviously still care a lot about each other. She has 'respected' my decision for the most part. She has cracked a few times, calling me and telling me how much she misses me, but I have stayed strong. Well, anyways, I met her through one of my best girl friends because they go to the same school. It is my best friends' birthday party next weekend, and I am going to it. It happens to be at my ex-girlfriends' apartment, but I am not going to let her change my plans. I am going with another good friend of mine, and even though we broke up, I am still good friends with a lot of my ex-girlfriend's friends. Things aren't bad at all between my ex and I. I gave her the 'no contact' clause about a month and a half ago, but there are no hard feelings between us and we are just living our own lives for the time being. My question is...how should I go about acting at this party? The last time I saw my girlfriend in person, I kissed her goodbye. I know it will atleast be a little awkward when I see her for the first time in 2 and a half months. I know that if I purposely ignore her, it will be obvious what I'm doing, but I also know that I can't engage in too many conversations with her because we are technically still in the no contact phase, and I plan on telling her that although I am going to see her, that doesn't mean the situation we are in right now will change.