"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats your take on this guys and what would be your reaction?

When I am often speaking to girls that kind of know me but not that well, for example a friend of a friend. For some reason it has come into conversation a few times and I can't exactly remember how but they would say

"I bet your seeing about 10 girls"

or something very similar.

Now whats the idea behind that? is that a good sign? and say if I were interested in the chick, how should I answer back, something like

" yeah going through a bad patch at the moment, only seeing 7 at the moment but........hey......you might be able to become number 8 but..... then agian"(with a playful tap at the end)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's definitely the girl trying to indirectly find out about your love life. In those situations, you must answer with a joke, like what you had there was perfect.
 
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That could mean she thinks you're a player, if it's said in a certain tone.
 
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Ye really great comeback that one =) or if you are ****y enough "Only 10? Please girl, give me some credit ;)"
 
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Depends on the relationship with the girl who questions you, but its definitely a sign from her telling you she knows your a hot item. That can be a definite plus, but like someone said above it could also mean she see's you as a player.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I`m a chick and I make comments like

"I bet you`re seeing lots of chicks." or "Are you a player?"

to guys that I think are good looking and have player potential. In cases like this, even if the guy denies that he is a player and portrays himself as a "nice guy", I don`t believe it for a second.
 
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Oh no! Not another chick here!!!
 
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Don't worry, I've been lurking for a while but never said a word. I've been highly entertained reading about all the HBs and tips to get laid and all that guy crap. :)
 
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Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by SilverSpring1
I`m a chick and I make comments like

"I bet you`re seeing lots of chicks." or "Are you a player?"

to guys that I think are good looking and have player potential. In cases like this, even if the guy denies that he is a player and portrays himself as a "nice guy", I don`t believe it for a second.
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Yepp girls can spot it a mile away :)

I met this girl that went after me but she was SURE I was a player and slept around but I denied it... I did admit it after I got inn her though... She was not shocked to say the least, she started laughing and saying "Ye what a surprise"...

But it's not like it has anything todo with looks because I'm one of few guys this girl sees as a player and the last boys she's had she has not seen as players as all even though they are hot (She is now one of my closest friends btw so she tells me stuff )
 
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Just wanted to mention that a guy who I consider to be a total Don Juan replied, "I try not to be" and sounded like he meant it when I asked him if he was a player. As a result he didn't quite answer if he was or wasn't a player.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most players don't like to get caught... Many players have low selfesteem imo and fvck to up it.
 
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Originally posted by SilverSpring1
Just wanted to mention that a guy who I consider to be a total Don Juan replied, "I try not to be" and sounded like he meant it when I asked him if he was a player. As a result he didn't quite answer if he was or wasn't a player.
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Great line. Mysterious yet sincere. Makes the guy look like he is the victim of his own seductive nature. Absolute Gold!

If this type of post is what we can expect from you in the future, then let me be the first to say welcome to the forum, SS1. Glad you finally decided to de-lurk!
 
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A friend of a friend said that?

You know what? I hate you! You really do! Just kidding, I don't hate you. I haven't even met you so I can't hate you.

Why not use that rep. to your advantage? If people think that about you, then you must be viewed as someone that women want.

Unless they're all ganging up on you to fool you. But that's doubtful.

I wish people thought that about me. But they don't. I don't even have a single female friend, ugly or pretty, taken or single to say things that to me, so......

Ben
 
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i usually say "nah not me... i only have about 8 or 9"
 
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Originally posted by SilverSpring1
I`m a chick and I make comments like

"I bet you`re seeing lots of chicks." or "Are you a player?"

to guys that I think are good looking and have player potential. In cases like this, even if the guy denies that he is a player and portrays himself as a "nice guy", I don`t believe it for a second.
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Good, that makes some comments that girls have made to me clearer. I get accused of being a player a whole lot more now... and I have to say I kinda like it :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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