"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seeing each other too much

badboy88

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Hi,

Earlier, I made a post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153182) asking you guys about a girl. Well we're finally dating now! Thanks for the suggestions guys!

So anyways, we've been dating for less than a month now, but we've been seeing each other almost every single day. This weekend, she stayed over for one night and we hung out the entire day on the following day. When I finally drive her home, she says that maybe we shouldn't see each other for a week. In a way I kind of agree that we're seeing each other too much and we need time to do our own things. However, I'm not sure if it means something bad when she says an entire week. I will probably sit her down and talk to her about the situation and tell her that everyday is a little too much and that we should ease off and maybe see each other for only a couple of days.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Disco

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don't even bring it up. you guys will talk today, no matter if you call her or she calls you, don't even bring it up. just carry on and when she asks you what you are going to be doing tonight just tell her that you are going to catch up with something you work on, hang out with a friend, etc. i promise you she will say "i want to see you". what you do from there is up to you.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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One time I really liked the girl I was with but noticed things were dying because we were just seeing eachother too much.

So I took up a second job and worked more hours.

It helped but she was the kind of girl who needed to be entertained every single second of the day so she eventually started seeking male attention elsewhere, and you really can't be in serious relationships with girls like that.
 
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