"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seeing each other too much

badboy88

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Hi,

Earlier, I made a post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153182) asking you guys about a girl. Well we're finally dating now! Thanks for the suggestions guys!

So anyways, we've been dating for less than a month now, but we've been seeing each other almost every single day. This weekend, she stayed over for one night and we hung out the entire day on the following day. When I finally drive her home, she says that maybe we shouldn't see each other for a week. In a way I kind of agree that we're seeing each other too much and we need time to do our own things. However, I'm not sure if it means something bad when she says an entire week. I will probably sit her down and talk to her about the situation and tell her that everyday is a little too much and that we should ease off and maybe see each other for only a couple of days.
 

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Disco

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don't even bring it up. you guys will talk today, no matter if you call her or she calls you, don't even bring it up. just carry on and when she asks you what you are going to be doing tonight just tell her that you are going to catch up with something you work on, hang out with a friend, etc. i promise you she will say "i want to see you". what you do from there is up to you.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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One time I really liked the girl I was with but noticed things were dying because we were just seeing eachother too much.

So I took up a second job and worked more hours.

It helped but she was the kind of girl who needed to be entertained every single second of the day so she eventually started seeking male attention elsewhere, and you really can't be in serious relationships with girls like that.
 
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