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Hi everyone,

What are your thoughts on paying for an escort?

I’ve been living in a conservative country where primary means of sex are marriage and escorts. Hookups are rare from the bar scene, and are made extinct now with the COVID closures. Been on a drought for over 18 months.

My family and I are vaccinated, so COVID is less of a threat. Does it make sense to pay an escort? Welcome your advice
 

samspade

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I’ve been living in a conservative country where primary means of sex are marriage and escorts.
Where do you live...Dodge City, 1880?

Seriously though, do what's best for you. I haven't been in a situation where I thought it was necessary, but I think it's an option there for when you need it.
 

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If you can afford to do it often, it's a very important tool to build and explore your sexuality, keep you in a sexual mindset even during droughts and generally keep you dealing with women in a sexual way.

A lot of proud guys on here will say it's a copout or that it's beta to pay for sex. Naturally most of those guys have never actually done it so it's the blind leading the blind.

First things first, hookers DO require game. You have to know how to contact them, how to get exactly what you want from them and how to avoid being ripped off, because the sad reality is probably 75% of hookers are absolutely hopeless at the actual sex part, but they're very good at ripping you off. Learning how to deal with them takes experience, and that means accepting that a certain amount of money is gonna be flushed down the toilet in tbe meantime. Think of it as research funding; it's gone once it's gone.

Second, sex is a basic masculine need. It is vital for a man to be having sex to release pent up tension. Therefore if you aren't having sex for free, you pay, and to those that say it's beta, I say, why aren't you growing all your own food, rearing animals to slaughter? Why do you pay for food in a supermarket? What's the matter, don't have the balls to raise a pig and slit its throat to make bacon? That's so beta, bro. Get your T checked.

See how ridiculous that sounds?

Third, hookers can give you certain sexual experiences that are hard to come by on civvie street, no matter how alpha you are. It's all available if you do your research, and pay up. What they can't give you is an ego boost; only free sex with a girl who is into you for your looks (and not your car, your job or your social circle) can do that. Ergo most self styled "alphas" aren't actually getting any ego boosts from "free" sex anyway.

These are some of the girls I saw before catching Covid last month. All of them provide a fantastic, enthusiastic pornstar experience, practically indistinguishable from a hookup with a civvie. They're all very expensive however.

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I was with a hooker once a long time ago. Never again unless I can afford porn stars one day. The most boring and terrible sex I’ve ever had. And she was an 8
 

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Hi everyone,

What are your thoughts on paying for an escort?

I’ve been living in a conservative country where primary means of sex are marriage and escorts. Hookups are rare from the bar scene, and are made extinct now with the COVID closures. Been on a drought for over 18 months.

My family and I are vaccinated, so COVID is less of a threat. Does it make sense to pay an escort? Welcome your advice
They're not shutting you out of sex in marriage where you live?
 

metalwater

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depending on location; the setup and behavior can be different. it's ok, it's been part of human life forever...

if you do choose to do it; post back how it goes so others can learn.

you said family; do you have a woman in LTR already? that info might affect some of the opinions.
 

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If you can afford to do it often, it's a very important tool to build and explore your sexuality, keep you in a sexual mindset even during droughts and generally keep you dealing with women in a sexual way.

A lot of proud guys on here will say it's a copout or that it's beta to pay for sex. Naturally most of those guys have never actually done it so it's the blind leading the blind.

First things first, hookers DO require game. You have to know how to contact them, how to get exactly what you want from them and how to avoid being ripped off, because the sad reality is probably 75% of hookers are absolutely hopeless at the actual sex part, but they're very good at ripping you off. Learning how to deal with them takes experience, and that means accepting that a certain amount of money is gonna be flushed down the toilet in tbe meantime. Think of it as research funding; it's gone once it's gone.

Second, sex is a basic masculine need. It is vital for a man to be having sex to release pent up tension. Therefore if you aren't having sex for free, you pay, and to those that say it's beta, I say, why aren't you growing all your own food, rearing animals to slaughter? Why do you pay for food in a supermarket? What's the matter, don't have the balls to raise a pig and slit its throat to make bacon? That's so beta, bro. Get your T checked.

See how ridiculous that sounds?

Third, hookers can give you certain sexual experiences that are hard to come by on civvie street, no matter how alpha you are. It's all available if you do your research, and pay up. What they can't give you is an ego boost; only free sex with a girl who is into you for your looks (and not your car, your job or your social circle) can do that. Ergo most self styled "alphas" aren't actually getting any ego boosts from "free" sex anyway.

These are some of the girls I saw before catching Covid last month. All of them provide a fantastic, enthusiastic pornstar experience, practically indistinguishable from a hookup with a civvie. They're all very expensive however.

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A beta would be afraid of women like that.

To OP: Do it and enjoy the experience.
 

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Two Hookers on the corner. One says to the other, its going to be a busy night.
The other says yaa how do you know?
She says I can smell kawk in the air.
The other says oh sorry I just burped.
 

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Yeah it is very common place. I'm not a big fan of hookers anyhow.I can live without them
Same. In fact, I’m a little disappointed so many pua’s push for a sex life consisting of hookers and sugar babies nowadays. Back in my day (yes I’m sounding old now), pua was all about being able to get the hotties WITHOUT having to be rich. In fact, that was its main allure for me
 

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Same. In fact, I’m a little disappointed so many pua’s push for a sex life consisting of hookers and sugar babies nowadays. Back in my day (yes I’m sounding old now), pua was all about being able to get the hotties WITHOUT having to be rich. In fact, that was its main allure for me
I totally agree.Prostitution shouldn't be celebrated. I believe it decays society and value to be honest with you. "You can take a ***** out of the trailer park but you can't take the trailer park out of the *****".
 

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Don't do it. It's a terrible idea. You'll equate the experience to all your future sexual experiences. You'll have an epiphany that the only way to have a good time with a high, quality women is through prostitution.
Maybe if you're young. And not all bangable escorts are in the 9-10 range.

Escorts in general can be a good way to reduce thirst if you're in a rut. Girls can smell if you've had sex but they won't know where it came from They can also sense your detachment from just having banged someone new who is hotter/as hot as them, without the usual hassles.
 

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Maybe if you're young. And not all bangable escorts are in the 9-10 range.

Escorts in general can be a good way to reduce thirst if you're in a rut. Girls can smell if you've had sex but they won't know where it came from; they can also sense your detachment from just having banged someone new who is hotter/as hot as them without the usual hassles.
There are other ways to smell like you’ve had sex. Pheromones with copulins are a way.
However, in my experience, if I have had a string of sexual encounters, my success with new women declines. No idea why. Just another pua theory I was disappointed to discover wasn’t accurate for me.
 

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I met one of the hottest girls I ever banged in my life right after I banged a prostitute.

It got rid of all my frustration and anxiety and allowed me to just party. Spent a good 2 or 3 weeks with that girl I met after.

They also don't smell it literally. It will just show in your relaxed demeanor.
 

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I met one of the hottest girls I ever banged in my life right after I banged a prostitute.

It got rid of all my frustration and anxiety and allowed me to just party. Spent a good 2 or 3 weeks with that girl I met after.

They also don't smell it literally. It will just show in your relaxed demeanor.
Sometimes I think my relaxed demeanour is too arrogant and off putting. I had this in sales as well. Whenever I was very relaxed and DGAF, I did terribly.
 
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