Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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See you all in November

Black Widow Void

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There are some mods that I respect (so much that if in the same city, I'd welcome the opportunity to buy you a coffee or a beer) .

And, there are other mods that seem to delight in revising rules regularly to their liking.... and practicing some (in my opinion) unwarranted heavy handedness.

I really like this forum and get a good feeling of self-worth when I feel I've helped someone.
However, some recent actions are souring this experience.

Hopefully by November, things will be more straitened out. I hope to return and experience the previous enjoyment that I recall.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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logicallefty

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Agreeing to disagree on how we moderate, I hope you do come back. You've been a good poster. And I'm glad to see you just take a break rather then tell us you are leaving forever. Most people who tell us they are leaving forever come back. Taking a break from SS is sometimes good. Then come back and charge on..
 
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