"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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See you all in November

Black Widow Void

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There are some mods that I respect (so much that if in the same city, I'd welcome the opportunity to buy you a coffee or a beer) .

And, there are other mods that seem to delight in revising rules regularly to their liking.... and practicing some (in my opinion) unwarranted heavy handedness.

I really like this forum and get a good feeling of self-worth when I feel I've helped someone.
However, some recent actions are souring this experience.

Hopefully by November, things will be more straitened out. I hope to return and experience the previous enjoyment that I recall.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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logicallefty

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Agreeing to disagree on how we moderate, I hope you do come back. You've been a good poster. And I'm glad to see you just take a break rather then tell us you are leaving forever. Most people who tell us they are leaving forever come back. Taking a break from SS is sometimes good. Then come back and charge on..
 
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