"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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See you all in November

Black Widow Void

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There are some mods that I respect (so much that if in the same city, I'd welcome the opportunity to buy you a coffee or a beer) .

And, there are other mods that seem to delight in revising rules regularly to their liking.... and practicing some (in my opinion) unwarranted heavy handedness.

I really like this forum and get a good feeling of self-worth when I feel I've helped someone.
However, some recent actions are souring this experience.

Hopefully by November, things will be more straitened out. I hope to return and experience the previous enjoyment that I recall.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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logicallefty

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Agreeing to disagree on how we moderate, I hope you do come back. You've been a good poster. And I'm glad to see you just take a break rather then tell us you are leaving forever. Most people who tell us they are leaving forever come back. Taking a break from SS is sometimes good. Then come back and charge on..
 
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