The LadyKiller
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Can girls change? Can a girl who, six months ago, give you a fake phone number now be genuinely be interested? I might be on the verge of finding out. Let me explain:
Awhile ago, I met a HB 8.5. She had a close girl friend who seemed to have it in for me (to this day I don't know why; mutual friends say it was something very trivial). When this friend was around, HB 8.5 would alternate being nice and b*tchy. When I suggested we hang out, HB said yes, then gave me a fake number and was otherwise immature. She was immediately nexted. :trouble: Around this time, I learned the mutual friends didn't care for 8.5's good friend either; they thought she was pretentious and tried to get away with her good looks. Apparently, the friend did this immature bs a lot and it perhaps influenced the HB ("act of solidarity" as one friend said). This got me wondering: what would happen if the HB's friend left and went far far away?
Well, that's exactly what happened. Soon after her friend moved 1000 miles away :wave: , relations between me and the HB warmed up. Slowly and gradually, as a result of having to see her often, we began getting along well. Recently, some of my other plates have been slowing (I'm getting the runaround or they keep the conversation at smalltalk). HB 8.5 has suddenly become one of the few HB's who is intelligent and can hold a conversation. She laughs at my jokes, she actively engages in the conversation, we have several similarities with values/morals/etc. She'll even open up and talk about things she wouldn't want others to know about. We get along way better than even at the time I met her. However, she seems to like playing hard to get (problem with a girl being smart). I usually initiate things since I'm an outgoing guy. But when I don't, she is conveniently "around" until I acknowledge her. In both cases, she seems happy to talk/chill. It's weird.
This week, we were talking and she was doing the dangling-shoe-off-the-tip-of-her-foot trick. I don't know if it's a sign or if it means nothing - the web suggests it might be a big flirting sign - so I figured I'd mention it here.
Could this girl have changed? Like an elephant, I never forget. I still remember what happened six months ago and it gives me some pause. At the same time, it seems her entire attitude has changed. To put it briefly, I can't tell if she is leading me on or not, and I don't want to get burned again. What do you make of this?
Awhile ago, I met a HB 8.5. She had a close girl friend who seemed to have it in for me (to this day I don't know why; mutual friends say it was something very trivial). When this friend was around, HB 8.5 would alternate being nice and b*tchy. When I suggested we hang out, HB said yes, then gave me a fake number and was otherwise immature. She was immediately nexted. :trouble: Around this time, I learned the mutual friends didn't care for 8.5's good friend either; they thought she was pretentious and tried to get away with her good looks. Apparently, the friend did this immature bs a lot and it perhaps influenced the HB ("act of solidarity" as one friend said). This got me wondering: what would happen if the HB's friend left and went far far away?
Well, that's exactly what happened. Soon after her friend moved 1000 miles away :wave: , relations between me and the HB warmed up. Slowly and gradually, as a result of having to see her often, we began getting along well. Recently, some of my other plates have been slowing (I'm getting the runaround or they keep the conversation at smalltalk). HB 8.5 has suddenly become one of the few HB's who is intelligent and can hold a conversation. She laughs at my jokes, she actively engages in the conversation, we have several similarities with values/morals/etc. She'll even open up and talk about things she wouldn't want others to know about. We get along way better than even at the time I met her. However, she seems to like playing hard to get (problem with a girl being smart). I usually initiate things since I'm an outgoing guy. But when I don't, she is conveniently "around" until I acknowledge her. In both cases, she seems happy to talk/chill. It's weird.
This week, we were talking and she was doing the dangling-shoe-off-the-tip-of-her-foot trick. I don't know if it's a sign or if it means nothing - the web suggests it might be a big flirting sign - so I figured I'd mention it here.Could this girl have changed? Like an elephant, I never forget. I still remember what happened six months ago and it gives me some pause. At the same time, it seems her entire attitude has changed. To put it briefly, I can't tell if she is leading me on or not, and I don't want to get burned again. What do you make of this?