"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seductive Look

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Is there a "seductive look" that you can give women to show your interested?

Ex - You see a women across the street but dont have time to go up to her but you feel like boosting your ego a bit and making her and yourself feel good.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I dont really see seductive looks as being a long distance thing. I'm sure there is something you could do from afar to let a woman know you want to fvck her, but the best thing to do is cross the street to where she is. Seduction is an up close and personal thing.
 

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Upside said:
Smile bro, just smile.
To add on to this, smiling in a calm and relaxed manner....thats money. If you look at a girl, having complete confidence in yourself to hold the gaze and not give a hoot about whether she thinks you're a perv or whatever, sh*t like that you know....if you keep confidence in yourself the "seduction" part of the look falls neatly into place.

There was an article on some site...where it mentioned Sean Connery in 007 Goldfinger....he smiling before banging that HO in the barn, and its sort of a smile/SMIRK that says, "I know you want me, I know you know that I want you, and thers nothing you can do about it"

While I look for that clip, here are too clips that personally I find pretty attractive...no h0mo at all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owmrpWyTdxQ

Go to about :45 into the clip, and right before Robert Plant starts his verse, he shoots off hwat I think its one of the sexiest looks in Rock N Roll....idk if he was looking at somebody in the audience, the person handling the camera might have been a fine-ass girl I dont know, but the look he gives is pretty seductive, yet he's not trying, he's just happy and enjoying himself at the concert

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNa5YNbiVa0

Here's a Jimmy Page interview from the 80s or somehting...look at the comments. Half of them are "Omg jimmy page is so hot...he's so sexy..."etc and all this dude is doing is talking! Lol, but still look at his eyes, his tone of voice etc.....thats probably how he would (and you should) talk to a girl in the bedroom, or hell maybe he is lit haha i'm not sure.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CuAz6DXUopw

Pause RIGHT AT 1:56 DAMN thats the money shot right there.....a smile/smirk gaze like.....you're about to f*ck a hot girl right there in a smelly horse barn. Thats the look that you should be going for


Also look at like any Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt movie....just have a lotta confidence and calm in yourself and this "look" you're going for should come naturally...also a lot of potheads are usually "players" in HS, (the guys whose lives are to females) so they are calm 24/7

usually
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smiling is the only thing im not confortable doing and dont like doing...

i can hold eye contact and be relaxed and confident but the smiling is a no go...

sometimes i might be someplace and me and a chick would lock eyes for a while and were jus looking at each other...then i end up looking like "what the fvck are you looking at".....then i later remember i was supposed to smile...
 

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Willis said:
Smiling is the only thing im not confortable doing and dont like doing...

i can hold eye contact and be relaxed and confident but the smiling is a no go...

sometimes i might be someplace and me and a chick would lock eyes for a while and were jus looking at each other...then i end up looking like "what the fvck are you looking at".....then i later remember i was supposed to smile...
LOL Thats just like me bro, funny ****
 

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Crissco said:
LOL Thats just like me bro, funny ****
There has been a lot of field research demonstrating that it is most effective with womem to hold eye contact with them, and not smile until they smile first. If you are walking along and a woman is coming toward you, just look into her eyes, without projecting any wierdness, just calmly, and watch her reaction.

If she is interested she will smile, then you smile to reward her and reciprocate, and then say something. If she looks away, she is most likely uninterested, or possibly shy/intimidated.


You want the type that smile first, as it is a clear indicator she has interest. As long as you dont say something stupid right away, you're off to a good start.

Try this test. Just hold eye contact and dont smile, and see what happens. It is very interesting. Remember, when you smile first, you are basically giving her the upper hand, you are telling her you have high interest, and that you are approval seeking. Women actually respect you more for not smiling a lot of the time.

The only exception is if you are the smily type and she can clearly see that you are smiling anyway, and happen to direct it at her, as you do with most people.

If you are trudging along with no smile, then see a pretty girl, look at her and smile, it communicates that you are after something.
 
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