When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To add on to this, smiling in a calm and relaxed manner....thats money. If you look at a girl, having complete confidence in yourself to hold the gaze and not give a hoot about whether she thinks you're a perv or whatever, sh*t like that you know....if you keep confidence in yourself the "seduction" part of the look falls neatly into place.Upside said:Smile bro, just smile.
I do bro. My problem is smiling in a calm relaxed manner all the time.Upside said:Smile bro, just smile.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL Thats just like me bro, funny ****Willis said:Smiling is the only thing im not confortable doing and dont like doing...
i can hold eye contact and be relaxed and confident but the smiling is a no go...
sometimes i might be someplace and me and a chick would lock eyes for a while and were jus looking at each other...then i end up looking like "what the fvck are you looking at".....then i later remember i was supposed to smile...
There has been a lot of field research demonstrating that it is most effective with womem to hold eye contact with them, and not smile until they smile first. If you are walking along and a woman is coming toward you, just look into her eyes, without projecting any wierdness, just calmly, and watch her reaction.Crissco said:LOL Thats just like me bro, funny ****