"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seduction by teaching seduction?

theunflushables

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So, their is the 20 year old girl I take smoke breaks with at work. I've had the thought "wow, I bet she'd be a great fvck" and really thats about it.

Anyways, the other day she was *****ing about some boy and I absent mindedly called him an AFC. Which, then I had to explain what an AFC was. Loving how the description of an AFC matched this kid and wanting to know how to get back at him for all the mind games he's played with her, she wants me to start teaching her as she calls it "dating tricks".

Now the two part question.

1. Should I teach her some stuff (negs, DHV, IOIs etc)?

2. Could I seduce her through teaching her seduction? Invite her over so I can teach her stuff in more than 15 minute intervals escalate kino and such. Or would this make it seem clinical?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guywhoneedshelp

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HAHAHA OMG i'm not laughing at you, I'm laughing because this happened to me in a situation and eventually the girl turned into an FB and has been a wing / social proof builder for me, and I'm on the verge of doing it with a SECOND girl.

This girl was always just kinda "one of the guys" because we met her in school, where we all study TV production, and she dropped out or whatever but we'd still go to her house, play pool, etc. And we'd really just talk and say things like "man why was he being such an AFC that day" and eventually I ended up teaching her the whole thing with urbandictionary and wikipedia. Then we had sex and she's totally cool with who I am because by me teaching her how men think she feels a lot of comfort and trust with me.

This second girl, I took her to the movies. She's like HB7.5 only but whatever, I wanted to see the movie, why go alone. Movie is called best friends girl, I slip and say "what an AFC" about Jason Biggs character. She wanted to know what an AFC was so when I got home I sent her an IM with the wikipedia link. Same story, next time she came over we watched a movie, made out, probably will bang her eventually if she's not on period next time.

So yea it work, depends on the girl. I think you can build comfort and trust in her. Also, my ex, I used to give her guy friends seduction advice and she'd be listening, and I'd teach them not to be an AFC, to spin plates, etc. I dunno if it helped build the attraction but I think these women were intrigued to learn form somebody how men think, which helped us connect because I was connecting to their inner thought process.

Oh I forgot, another girl I seduced with this method. The day after I bought mysterys book, I showed it to her, then told her "yea I'm workin on getting a new radio show where we teach guys how to seduce." we fvucked that day first time I ever fvcked her
 
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