"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seducing this woman. Need tips to escalate.

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Whatever happened to building a real relationship?
you are still looking at this through a blue lens. It is always sex first and relationship after. if you did indeed pull her hair and all that then what is the problem drive back to your place. You don't even have to say anything if it went that far. the more you delay this the less of a man she will think you are. You may still get that precious relationship you are after but it wont be the way you want and both of you will be unhappy in the long run and eventually collapse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey thats a good analogy. "looking at this through a blue lens." Visual.

Ok....now what? Do I text her right now and say "come over?"...do I wait a week to contact her to set anoher date?
 
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You could invite her to dinner at your place before weekend. If you don't want to cook, prepare two take-away dishes, put a candle on the table and around yor bed, have some nice music. Apartment is tidy and clean? Bathroom as well?

Alright. If you need help how to push him into her, give me her number I'll do that then...
 

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marmel75, not a troll--not sure why you are taking a jab at me.
Because you post the same nonsense with every women and seemingly don't want to learn the right way to handle your business like a man.

As Maximus Rex says: Why ask for advice if you are not going to fvcking listen to it?

The next time you are doing all this passionate sh!t, grab her hand, put it on your c0ck, then cover it and start rubbing the top of her hand until she starts rubbing it herself. Then whisper in her ear "I really want to Fvck you right now" and if she is as in to you as you think she will be all about it.

Then suggest you go to a hotel/motel nearby(key is to plan a date where there are a multitude of options nearby) and then bang the hell out her. Trust me, it works, they oftentimes find motel/hotel sex "dirtier" than in a house or apartment and will be super turned on by the thought of doing it in a strange place.

That's it. Step 1, Step 2. Step 3. I just gave you it in color by numbers format. If you can't handle that I'm not sure there is any hope for you. Stop playing games. Stop wasting time. Stop trying to be a "friend". Stop waiting for your fairy godmother to come wave a wand and create a bed with you 2 in it laying there naked and MAKE something happen.

Be a man and Fvck her like a man. That's what men do

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marvel lol...I'm going to give you a hard c*ck if you don't shut your mouth:)
 
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Because you post the same nonsense with every women and seemingly don't want to learn the right way to handle your business like a man.

As Maximus Rex says: Why ask for advice if you are not going to fvcking listen to it?

The next time you are doing all this passionate sh!t, grab her hand, put it on your c0ck, then cover it and start rubbing the top of her hand until she starts rubbing it herself. Then whisper in her ear "I really want to Fvck you right now" and if she is as in to you as you think she will be all about it.

Then suggest you go to a hotel/motel nearby(key is to plan a date where there are a multitude of options nearby) and then bang the hell out her. Trust me, it works, they oftentimes find motel/hotel sex "dirtier" than in a house or apartment and will be super turned on by the thought of doing it in a strange place.

That's it. Step 1, Step 2. Step 3. I just gave you it in color by numbers format. If you can't handle that I'm not sure there is any hope for you. Stop playing games. Stop wasting time. Stop trying to be a "friend". Stop waiting for your fairy godmother to come wave a wand and create a bed with you 2 in it laying there naked and MAKE something happen.

Be a man and Fvck her like a man. That's what men do

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you could do what marmel suggests or you can go to a bar within a couple miles of your apartment. Take her to have a couple drinks after that just leave and head to your place. If you end up in the parking lot and kissing... take her to your place. If she says no, tell her you forgot something that you need before heading out to the next spot. Do whatever it takes to get back to your apartment. Offer her another drink when you're there. Start kissing her then bang the snot out of her. If you feel like going out to a different spot afterwards then go right ahead but you need to get her back to your place sooner than later. It sounds like you have the groundwork already you just need to execute.
 

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you could do what marmel suggests or you can go to a bar within a couple miles of your apartment. Take her to have a couple drinks after that just leave and head to your place. If you end up in the parking lot and kissing... take her to your place. If she says no, tell her you forgot something that you need before heading out to the next spot. Do whatever it takes to get back to your apartment. Offer her another drink when you're there. Start kissing her then bang the snot out of her. If you feel like going out to a different spot afterwards then go right ahead but you need to get her back to your place sooner than later. It sounds like you have the groundwork already you just need to execute.
He just said he can't use his apartment earlier in the thread which is why I suggested the motel route
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Marvel...lol I am going to give you a hard c*ck of you don't shut your mouth:)
Maybe that's why you are having such a hard time...in denial with one foot and your entire body trying to come out of the closet...lmao

Are you secretly trying to use her for her younger brother?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And my instinct about being a troll is obviously being proved correct
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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