"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seducing a female friend?

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So there is this friend I have...when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends. I used to flirt with her a lot, but then I kinda stopped. Anyway, I've become pretty flirtatious again, and she usually responds well, but she often tells me that my "joking" annoys her....but at the same time it makes her happier after awhile when she's sad (she seems to be very moody). Well anyway, I'm not so sure I'd want a relationship with her, but I seem to be quite infatuated lol. How should I go about doing this? Should I avoid having more "serious" conversations with her? Because we seem to be further apart after those...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In my experience once you are a "friend" in her mind it is very difficult to change that. It's a real b!tch, eh? You got to set the attraction from the get go, or else it generally won't happen.
 
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Well, what happens when you start out as more than a friend, then just fall into the just friends sort of thing? Is that different?
 
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when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends.


Well you fvcked that up, didn't you? With the next girl, don't do that. Make a move, and either get laid or get rejected, and move on from there. Then you won't ever be in this situation again.
 
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Well, there isn't really a situation....well maybe there is lol. I'm not in love with her or anything, the girl just turns me on. I don't want a relationship with her...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ARrocket said:
So there is this friend I have...when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends. I used to flirt with her a lot, but then I kinda stopped. Anyway, I've become pretty flirtatious again, and she usually responds well, but she often tells me that my "joking" annoys her....but at the same time it makes her happier after awhile when she's sad (she seems to be very moody). Well anyway, I'm not so sure I'd want a relationship with her, but I seem to be quite infatuated lol. How should I go about doing this? Should I avoid having more "serious" conversations with her? Because we seem to be further apart after those...
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You are in the "friendzone"....the closest you will get to sex with her is mastrubating by yourself, holding a picture of her, and calling her name as you climax in sexual frustration.
 
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lol what they are basicly saying man is just the work you would have to put in for this wouln't be worth it. Get that there is only one girl for me thing out your head.

But if none of that steers you away keep trying then. Every Don juan know that there comes a time when you got to break a rule or two but the odds are set against. The only way I ever ever seen this work out is when the girl secretly had a crush on the guy the whole time, which from what you told don't sounds like it.
 
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lol thanks Tookie but you guys aren't understanding...

I am not thinking she's the girl for me, I am NOT interested in any kind of relationship or anything with her...I date other girls, but (not to sound too crude) I would love to bang her :)
 
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