"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So there is this friend I have...when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends. I used to flirt with her a lot, but then I kinda stopped. Anyway, I've become pretty flirtatious again, and she usually responds well, but she often tells me that my "joking" annoys her....but at the same time it makes her happier after awhile when she's sad (she seems to be very moody). Well anyway, I'm not so sure I'd want a relationship with her, but I seem to be quite infatuated lol. How should I go about doing this? Should I avoid having more "serious" conversations with her? Because we seem to be further apart after those...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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In my experience once you are a "friend" in her mind it is very difficult to change that. It's a real b!tch, eh? You got to set the attraction from the get go, or else it generally won't happen.
 
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Well, what happens when you start out as more than a friend, then just fall into the just friends sort of thing? Is that different?
 
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when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends.


Well you fvcked that up, didn't you? With the next girl, don't do that. Make a move, and either get laid or get rejected, and move on from there. Then you won't ever be in this situation again.
 
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Well, there isn't really a situation....well maybe there is lol. I'm not in love with her or anything, the girl just turns me on. I don't want a relationship with her...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket said:
So there is this friend I have...when we first met I know she was interested, but nothing happened and we just became friends. I used to flirt with her a lot, but then I kinda stopped. Anyway, I've become pretty flirtatious again, and she usually responds well, but she often tells me that my "joking" annoys her....but at the same time it makes her happier after awhile when she's sad (she seems to be very moody). Well anyway, I'm not so sure I'd want a relationship with her, but I seem to be quite infatuated lol. How should I go about doing this? Should I avoid having more "serious" conversations with her? Because we seem to be further apart after those...
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You are in the "friendzone"....the closest you will get to sex with her is mastrubating by yourself, holding a picture of her, and calling her name as you climax in sexual frustration.
 
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lol what they are basicly saying man is just the work you would have to put in for this wouln't be worth it. Get that there is only one girl for me thing out your head.

But if none of that steers you away keep trying then. Every Don juan know that there comes a time when you got to break a rule or two but the odds are set against. The only way I ever ever seen this work out is when the girl secretly had a crush on the guy the whole time, which from what you told don't sounds like it.
 
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lol thanks Tookie but you guys aren't understanding...

I am not thinking she's the girl for me, I am NOT interested in any kind of relationship or anything with her...I date other girls, but (not to sound too crude) I would love to bang her :)
 
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