"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Second date with girl and asks to make a comprise.

bruceartest24

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So it's been a week since our last date and asked what she was doing this weekend an she came up with ton of plans for Friday and Saturday seemed busy. I was cool about it and said oh I had this idea for us to do this thing but maybe next time...an it triggered a lot of interest an she cancelled her Saturday plans to go with me.

I had stuff planned for Saturday and Sunday but she wants to do everything on Saturday essentially two dates in 1 day any tips for hanging with this chick for 6 hours straight. I know she gets a lot of attention from guys an gets asked out a lot I just want to make sure I'm making the right choices.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My tip is to not just give 6 hours to a girl so fast. Tell her you have some errands to do but that you are free for 2-3 hours and you can [paste in low-cost activity with chance to score].
 

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3countriesPlan said:
My tip is to not just give 6 hours to a girl so fast. Tell her you have some errands to do but that you are free for 2-3 hours and you can [paste in low-cost activity with chance to score].
^^ This
 
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