"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Second date with girl and asks to make a comprise.

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So it's been a week since our last date and asked what she was doing this weekend an she came up with ton of plans for Friday and Saturday seemed busy. I was cool about it and said oh I had this idea for us to do this thing but maybe next time...an it triggered a lot of interest an she cancelled her Saturday plans to go with me.

I had stuff planned for Saturday and Sunday but she wants to do everything on Saturday essentially two dates in 1 day any tips for hanging with this chick for 6 hours straight. I know she gets a lot of attention from guys an gets asked out a lot I just want to make sure I'm making the right choices.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My tip is to not just give 6 hours to a girl so fast. Tell her you have some errands to do but that you are free for 2-3 hours and you can [paste in low-cost activity with chance to score].
 
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3countriesPlan said:
My tip is to not just give 6 hours to a girl so fast. Tell her you have some errands to do but that you are free for 2-3 hours and you can [paste in low-cost activity with chance to score].
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^^ This
 
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