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Second date - nothing

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Don Juan
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Hi guys,

I had a second date with this girl i'm looking for. Nothing happened but we had a good time. She was always saying, ''this way, you won't go further'', she thinks im the kind of guy that doesnt care with the opinion of the others. ''you think u are the only one that knows the truth and blah, blah, nlah''

So, nothing happened in this second date. Am I entering in the friend zone? I made it clear that i wouldn't enter the friend zone.

Any move to avoid friend zone without being desesperate?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don Juan
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OK,

I'm looking for this girl, she's difficult, not an easy one. So I date one time with her, things didn't run very well, we went to the theater. Since, we've been talking in MSN for a long time, and we made a second date, we walked for while, we went to the coffe. But we are always teasing each other, and when i approach her, she always says ''go away'' or something like that. It's not a big deal, she's testing me.

We had this second date and nothing happened. Do you think am i in the friend zone, i think i must go for a kiss next time...
 

Hitman10000

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Forget the next time.

Step 1. Grab your balls to see if you have them.
Step 2. Don't contact her (email/phone/etc)
Step 3. Let her do the talking and walking.
 

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Don Juan
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BTW. I did all that.

Since then, she stopped to contact me. Today, she talked with me in MSN saying like ''everything is fine? i've got to go, good holidays for you''.

I don't think she was really interested in me.

Move on?
 
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