"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys,

I had a second date with this girl i'm looking for. Nothing happened but we had a good time. She was always saying, ''this way, you won't go further'', she thinks im the kind of guy that doesnt care with the opinion of the others. ''you think u are the only one that knows the truth and blah, blah, nlah''

So, nothing happened in this second date. Am I entering in the friend zone? I made it clear that i wouldn't enter the friend zone.

Any move to avoid friend zone without being desesperate?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OK,

I'm looking for this girl, she's difficult, not an easy one. So I date one time with her, things didn't run very well, we went to the theater. Since, we've been talking in MSN for a long time, and we made a second date, we walked for while, we went to the coffe. But we are always teasing each other, and when i approach her, she always says ''go away'' or something like that. It's not a big deal, she's testing me.

We had this second date and nothing happened. Do you think am i in the friend zone, i think i must go for a kiss next time...
 
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Forget the next time.

Step 1. Grab your balls to see if you have them.
Step 2. Don't contact her (email/phone/etc)
Step 3. Let her do the talking and walking.
 
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BTW. I did all that.

Since then, she stopped to contact me. Today, she talked with me in MSN saying like ''everything is fine? i've got to go, good holidays for you''.

I don't think she was really interested in me.

Move on?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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