second date no kiss

[Mazeman11]

there's a girl I have known for a while and so far had two dates..the dates were good but at the end of the second date she didnt let me kiss her...she turned and offered her cheek...does that show the girl is not interested?

 

[Paradox]

Well, yes and no.....

I dated a girl once and she didn't kiss on the 1st 2nd or 3rd date. I found this kinda strange but I decided to go out with her once more.

We went on the 4th date and she invited me up to her apt. I sat on the couch and she jumped me. She stradled me and shoved her tounge down my throat. Of course we ended up in the bedroom.

Your girl might be shy or thinking about it or nervous about having a relationship.

Age is a factor so if we are talking about teen love then that's a whole other story...

Or...you could be in the friend zone and not know it.

Suggestions:

Use Kino.
Bring up the subject of sex. Not in a dirty way but in casual conversation.
Ask her about boyfriends (she may have one but hasn't told you about him yet)
Ask about her last relationship (Maybe the last guy hurt her hence her hesitation to move forward in the relationship)

 

[Mazeman11]

I've read similar threads but from your post you seem like u know what your taking about. I think this girl is shy and afraid to get involved for whatever reason. How would you make such person warm up to you without having her see you as just a friend?