"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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there's a girl I have known for a while and so far had two dates..the dates were good but at the end of the second date she didnt let me kiss her...she turned and offered her cheek...does that show the girl is not interested?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, yes and no.....

I dated a girl once and she didn't kiss on the 1st 2nd or 3rd date. I found this kinda strange but I decided to go out with her once more.

We went on the 4th date and she invited me up to her apt. I sat on the couch and she jumped me. She stradled me and shoved her tounge down my throat. Of course we ended up in the bedroom.

Your girl might be shy or thinking about it or nervous about having a relationship.

Age is a factor so if we are talking about teen love then that's a whole other story...

Or...you could be in the friend zone and not know it.

Suggestions:

Use Kino.
Bring up the subject of sex. Not in a dirty way but in casual conversation.
Ask her about boyfriends (she may have one but hasn't told you about him yet)
Ask about her last relationship (Maybe the last guy hurt her hence her hesitation to move forward in the relationship)
 
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I've read similar threads but from your post you seem like u know what your taking about. I think this girl is shy and afraid to get involved for whatever reason. How would you make such person warm up to you without having her see you as just a friend?
 
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