"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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second date greeting?

pyros

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So let's say you had a first date in which you made out a bit with the chick.

Now you have your second date with her...how do you greet her? do you give her a small peak? two kisses?


Just wondering what you guys usually do.

In my case, almost in all cases I've given them a small peak.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My philosophy is to meet her half way. If she hugs you, hug her. If she lets you kiss her cheek, do it. If she doesn't do anything, wait until she touches you first.
 

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Act as if you don't notice her and once she gets into your face then tell her "oh is that you, hi" lol

A girl did that to me once and i was kinda shocked. Pretty effective. She was playing hard to get of course.
 
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