"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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second date greeting?

pyros

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So let's say you had a first date in which you made out a bit with the chick.

Now you have your second date with her...how do you greet her? do you give her a small peak? two kisses?


Just wondering what you guys usually do.

In my case, almost in all cases I've given them a small peak.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigneil

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My philosophy is to meet her half way. If she hugs you, hug her. If she lets you kiss her cheek, do it. If she doesn't do anything, wait until she touches you first.
 

Suspens

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Act as if you don't notice her and once she gets into your face then tell her "oh is that you, hi" lol

A girl did that to me once and i was kinda shocked. Pretty effective. She was playing hard to get of course.
 
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