"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Second Chances

Jizz

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Whats your view on them?

Do you believe you get a second chance if you want something bad enough and work hard enough for it?

Or do you believe if you waste an oppurtunity the first time you wont get it back again and youve wasted your chance for good?

Ta
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PRMoon

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Hmm depends on what i'm trying to acheive. If you mean second chance as second opportunity, well you only get one chance to make a first impression, so in essance you're playing catch up.

If you want something that bad however then it won't matter how many attepts you make, you'll work at it until you acheive what ever it is you're lookin for.
 

JonJack

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You either could have a second chance or you don't get a second chance. We will never know any outcome until it actually happens. So you choose to do whatever it is you want to do to try and get a desired outcome. But remember, you don't deserve the outcome.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Hmm 2nd chances
I say they can be both good and bad

If you want something back that you know your gonna work hard for, would it be worth it in the long run? Thats what I tell myself

Than other times its just not worth it
In my case atleast
It all comes down to the person I guess
 

Boner da Stoner

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After finding out that about 40 of my old high school crushes were psychos... or realizing that the city I live in breeds psychos

I came to the conclusion that...

YES you do get second chances, all over the place, people give them to you whenever they stick around

But be careful with the friends to lovers game, its tough on peoples emotions
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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