"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Second Chances

Jizz

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Whats your view on them?

Do you believe you get a second chance if you want something bad enough and work hard enough for it?

Or do you believe if you waste an oppurtunity the first time you wont get it back again and youve wasted your chance for good?

Ta
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRMoon

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Hmm depends on what i'm trying to acheive. If you mean second chance as second opportunity, well you only get one chance to make a first impression, so in essance you're playing catch up.

If you want something that bad however then it won't matter how many attepts you make, you'll work at it until you acheive what ever it is you're lookin for.
 

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You either could have a second chance or you don't get a second chance. We will never know any outcome until it actually happens. So you choose to do whatever it is you want to do to try and get a desired outcome. But remember, you don't deserve the outcome.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Hmm 2nd chances
I say they can be both good and bad

If you want something back that you know your gonna work hard for, would it be worth it in the long run? Thats what I tell myself

Than other times its just not worth it
In my case atleast
It all comes down to the person I guess
 

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After finding out that about 40 of my old high school crushes were psychos... or realizing that the city I live in breeds psychos

I came to the conclusion that...

YES you do get second chances, all over the place, people give them to you whenever they stick around

But be careful with the friends to lovers game, its tough on peoples emotions
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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