Okay, I've had some problems in the past and I think I've solved most if not all of them but now this is a new problem. Whenever I'm drunk at a party I obviously start to flirt with some drunk chicks. But no matter what I do I can hardly ever get them to seclusion. Whether it be we get distracted or they are too drunk to know wtf I'm saying and sh*t, I just have a VERY hard time secluding the drunk girl!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Secluding the drunk girl.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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He said secluding, and he meant secluding. Maybe iscolation would be a better term to use.
Tell her you want to show her something cool and run a routine on her. You can also tell her to "come here" and lead her somewhere. You can then follow up with a cold read or mind reading.
Love,
Smooth
Tell her you want to show her something cool and run a routine on her. You can also tell her to "come here" and lead her somewhere. You can then follow up with a cold read or mind reading.
Love,
Smooth
I love it and its only week 3 !"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.