Okay, I've had some problems in the past and I think I've solved most if not all of them but now this is a new problem. Whenever I'm drunk at a party I obviously start to flirt with some drunk chicks. But no matter what I do I can hardly ever get them to seclusion. Whether it be we get distracted or they are too drunk to know wtf I'm saying and sh*t, I just have a VERY hard time secluding the drunk girl!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Secluding the drunk girl.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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He said secluding, and he meant secluding. Maybe iscolation would be a better term to use.
Tell her you want to show her something cool and run a routine on her. You can also tell her to "come here" and lead her somewhere. You can then follow up with a cold read or mind reading.
Love,
Smooth
Tell her you want to show her something cool and run a routine on her. You can also tell her to "come here" and lead her somewhere. You can then follow up with a cold read or mind reading.
Love,
Smooth
I love it and its only week 3 !"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.