"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Seattle & Eastside: suggestions request for nice lounges?

Pertinax

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Hi. I'm an older PUA (way past 40 :) looking for suggestions for nice lounges in the Seattle area, mostly on the Eastside.

Note that I'm not looking for pick-up places (that's a different subject), but rather for nice classy quiet spots where to take a lady for a drink, coffee, and a piece of pie. Something in the style of the Westin hotel lounge in Seattle or Vancouver, BC. For those of you who know the one in Vancouver, that's **exactly** what I'm looking for :)

Very quiet, nice lighting, discretion and classiness are the operating words here.

I'm looking for a couple of reliable new places. All suggestions welcome and thanks in advance to those who will reply.

Pertinax
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Paradox

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I'm moving this to the wingman forum so you can get more replies. Try citysearch.com they have listings of lounges also.
 
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