"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First of all, I am from Germany so my english is maybe a little weak, and secondly I know this Forum isnt maybe the right place to ask, but I think i am right here.

So, I know a woman, and ya she's of course something very special for me. I am 19, and this woman is in the same class as I, but she really hate me. But I really like here, and I dont wanna give up. And whatever u say, I wont give it up. But here's my point:

I search good, cool , clever and might be really crazy idea's to impress her somehow. So I would highliy appreciate any good Idea's.

Thank you,

Perfect-Dreams
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well.. I dont like to say this but if she hates you, there really isn't going to be much you can do.

My first advice would be MOVE ON. But, you don't want to give up, right?

In that case the only thing you can really do is don't talk to her too much (be aloof), and try and prove what a great guy you are by doing good things for others/being friendly/flirting and laughing with other women. Make her see what she is missing, in other words.

That's the best I got.
 

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triple X just because a girl supposedly HATES you doesnt mean she doesnt want your shlong.
 

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i already checked it out, but i think this situation is a bit to strange or maybe just to individual for things like, to ignore her, or to flirt with other woman's in our class. In fact, I can't talk to her, because she just turn away. Because of that, I think its the best way to impress her in some ways. But I am not sure, how.
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Straight out of the DJ bible
ui, i like that. Thats nice. Other ideas?


And yeah, she's might be a kind of bi-tch, but it's already really great just to see her, and if I imagine how it would be, to be with her...I mean I would probaly just drop down dead or fall in a coma. So I think, its better to fight and to lose, instead of turn away and never tryed anything possible. I know its probaly against your way of life, and of course I really can understand why.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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*flyoutofmychair* *laugh*

Sure, I will read it. But it would be difficult to find something that will match. And ya, I will open up my eyes ;)
 

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Originally posted by Julian
triple X just because a girl supposedly HATES you doesnt mean she doesnt want your shlong.
Hmm....

Maybe... but I always found one of the keys to a successful relationship was to actually like the other person and talk to them. I think that's pretty important.

:rolleyes:
 

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And Perfect Dreams, if she is a 'b****' plus she hates you, why in the world do you want her so much?? Like SGD said, there are billions of girls out there!! Why go for a b****??
 

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Like I already said, its hard to understand and hard to explain. But I want her, and I dont want to exculpate this. At the moment its more important to me, to find a way to relax this situation or idea's about what might would be to do.
 
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