"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all, I am from Germany so my english is maybe a little weak, and secondly I know this Forum isnt maybe the right place to ask, but I think i am right here.

So, I know a woman, and ya she's of course something very special for me. I am 19, and this woman is in the same class as I, but she really hate me. But I really like here, and I dont wanna give up. And whatever u say, I wont give it up. But here's my point:

I search good, cool , clever and might be really crazy idea's to impress her somehow. So I would highliy appreciate any good Idea's.

Thank you,

Perfect-Dreams
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well.. I dont like to say this but if she hates you, there really isn't going to be much you can do.

My first advice would be MOVE ON. But, you don't want to give up, right?

In that case the only thing you can really do is don't talk to her too much (be aloof), and try and prove what a great guy you are by doing good things for others/being friendly/flirting and laughing with other women. Make her see what she is missing, in other words.

That's the best I got.
 

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triple X just because a girl supposedly HATES you doesnt mean she doesnt want your shlong.
 

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i already checked it out, but i think this situation is a bit to strange or maybe just to individual for things like, to ignore her, or to flirt with other woman's in our class. In fact, I can't talk to her, because she just turn away. Because of that, I think its the best way to impress her in some ways. But I am not sure, how.
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Straight out of the DJ bible
ui, i like that. Thats nice. Other ideas?


And yeah, she's might be a kind of bi-tch, but it's already really great just to see her, and if I imagine how it would be, to be with her...I mean I would probaly just drop down dead or fall in a coma. So I think, its better to fight and to lose, instead of turn away and never tryed anything possible. I know its probaly against your way of life, and of course I really can understand why.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*flyoutofmychair* *laugh*

Sure, I will read it. But it would be difficult to find something that will match. And ya, I will open up my eyes ;)
 

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Originally posted by Julian
triple X just because a girl supposedly HATES you doesnt mean she doesnt want your shlong.
Hmm....

Maybe... but I always found one of the keys to a successful relationship was to actually like the other person and talk to them. I think that's pretty important.

:rolleyes:
 

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And Perfect Dreams, if she is a 'b****' plus she hates you, why in the world do you want her so much?? Like SGD said, there are billions of girls out there!! Why go for a b****??
 

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Like I already said, its hard to understand and hard to explain. But I want her, and I dont want to exculpate this. At the moment its more important to me, to find a way to relax this situation or idea's about what might would be to do.
 
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