"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sealing the deal (or whatever).

Maeisgood

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1. Is using the "kiss test" the best way of saying non-verbally that you really like them?

2. Back when I think this chick liked me (last spring and summer) I should have done it. Would trying this on her have worked?

3. Where is the best location to do this at?

4. What are some things they have said afterwords?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Originally posted by Maeisgood
1. Is using the "kiss test" the best way of saying non-verbally that you really like them?

2. Back when I think this chick liked me (last spring and summer) I should have done it. Would trying this on her have worked?

3. Where is the best location to do this at?

4. What are some things they have said afterwords?
1. Yes.
2. How would I know?
3. A place with only the two of you.
4. "Wow."

You keep on asking the same questions!
 

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You're right. I just had bad experiences with chicks and how people reacted to me playing with them (in like kindergarten and first grade) and it probably scared me. I want to see what people have done with bad reactions from kiss tests to plan my recovery. The next time I do this will I'm trying it.

There is this awkward time called middle school that is a training time for high school. I saw my friends get humiliated, which is a stage everyone goes through. I opted out of this because of what happened earlier but now I wish I had learned the hard way but its too late for that. I'd like to read about other's expericences and have information no one else had.
 

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The information no one else has had is in the DJ Bible.

It's a compendium of knowledge.

Grab your balls and go. I know it's hard as hell, but the approach is much more difficult than the actual rejection.

Rection feels better than not approaching. You're actually proud you got the guts to do it.

No one can tell you anything else that'll help. There are no more questions we can answer that'll help.

The rest is up to you.
 
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