"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sealing the deal (or whatever).

Maeisgood

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1. Is using the "kiss test" the best way of saying non-verbally that you really like them?

2. Back when I think this chick liked me (last spring and summer) I should have done it. Would trying this on her have worked?

3. Where is the best location to do this at?

4. What are some things they have said afterwords?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Maeisgood
1. Is using the "kiss test" the best way of saying non-verbally that you really like them?

2. Back when I think this chick liked me (last spring and summer) I should have done it. Would trying this on her have worked?

3. Where is the best location to do this at?

4. What are some things they have said afterwords?
1. Yes.
2. How would I know?
3. A place with only the two of you.
4. "Wow."

You keep on asking the same questions!
 

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You're right. I just had bad experiences with chicks and how people reacted to me playing with them (in like kindergarten and first grade) and it probably scared me. I want to see what people have done with bad reactions from kiss tests to plan my recovery. The next time I do this will I'm trying it.

There is this awkward time called middle school that is a training time for high school. I saw my friends get humiliated, which is a stage everyone goes through. I opted out of this because of what happened earlier but now I wish I had learned the hard way but its too late for that. I'd like to read about other's expericences and have information no one else had.
 

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The information no one else has had is in the DJ Bible.

It's a compendium of knowledge.

Grab your balls and go. I know it's hard as hell, but the approach is much more difficult than the actual rejection.

Rection feels better than not approaching. You're actually proud you got the guts to do it.

No one can tell you anything else that'll help. There are no more questions we can answer that'll help.

The rest is up to you.
 
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