Screwing over another guy

[English_Bloke]

Ok, so I met this girl, got really close to her, and found she has a long-distance boyfriend going on who wont be in the area for a few years. Sounds like me when I used to be AFC and have cyber-relationships .

So, what should I do? I feel like an ******* if I move in for a relationship with her because the same happened to me when I was AFC.

Any tips on how move out of the 'understanding of the painful long-distance relationship' friend area and into a more interested in dating area. She already said she would have dated me if she wasnt in a relationship.

Just all the time im thinking of this I feel like such an ******* cause this happened to me. Oh well, what goes around comes around.

 

[familyguyfan]

Are you kidding? He won't be around for a few YEARS??!! Definitely go in for it. It would be one thing if you guys were in your twenties and her boyfriend of 4 years was off in Iraq, but in this situation there's no reason the relationship between her and that guy should still be going on.

 

[AC/DC]

Look out for yourself. What if some total AFC dude got with her cuz you didn't?

I couldn't deal with that sh*t, ever. Go for it. Make yourself fulfilled.

 

[Craig Reeves]

I agree with the other guys. There's no reason as to she would still be with a guy who won't be back for another 4 years. If she's still stuck on this guy, however, I'd move to another girl.

 

[Jay-X]

i seriously can't get the meaning of long distance relationships. i've been with my girlfriend for over 1 year now, but in 2006, i'll have to move to another city (wich is less than 90 minutes away, not very distant)... well, i'm sure i'll break up with her... let alone if i were to stay distant from her for years...