"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Screwed up situation

Wiesman44

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I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. We weren't dating, but considered ourselves friends w/ benefits. We hung out 3 times, made out, woulda boned once, but parents were home. Then she got her period one week (no sex). Then the next week we get into this HUGE argument. We both agree that we don't know each other very well, and that we should hold off on hooking up til we become friends. I only hung out w/ her 3 times in a months time due to our schedules.

So we're almost good again, no more arguments, everything is settled. I dont want a relationship w/ this girl. I just want to screw her once. I have another girl im working on, so I'm not going to next her til i get her.

Thing is, she says I have little to no game. After the crap we've been through together, i don't blame how she could say so.

FOr some reason she still likes me. She said to me last night, I know you like me, u don't need to admit it and she said "i'd be lying if I said i didnt want to make out with you."


SO apparently I have little game, but I will hang out w/ her again even though we're friends and she still wants to hookup with me in the near future. Is this not the most screwed up situation ever ? How the hell do I recover from this ? I'm not going to next her b/c i enjoy her company, as little time i do spend w/ her. Its like, she expects to like me more, she's very attracted to me, she thinks I'm gorgeous.

I do have game, just havent used it on her. She constantly made me feel uncomfortable w/ her strong personality, and the way she was. NOw im beginning ot get used to her and can use some game on her.

I really dont know what to do. Can I possibly recover from this situation ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wiesman44

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not gonna happen. I want to recover from this somehow. i want advice on how to do that.
 

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Stop worrying about what women say and base your actions on what they do.
 

Wiesman44

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Thank you......thats actually very good advice........Next time i hang out w/ her, we'll see :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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