"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Screwed up situation

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I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. We weren't dating, but considered ourselves friends w/ benefits. We hung out 3 times, made out, woulda boned once, but parents were home. Then she got her period one week (no sex). Then the next week we get into this HUGE argument. We both agree that we don't know each other very well, and that we should hold off on hooking up til we become friends. I only hung out w/ her 3 times in a months time due to our schedules.

So we're almost good again, no more arguments, everything is settled. I dont want a relationship w/ this girl. I just want to screw her once. I have another girl im working on, so I'm not going to next her til i get her.

Thing is, she says I have little to no game. After the crap we've been through together, i don't blame how she could say so.

FOr some reason she still likes me. She said to me last night, I know you like me, u don't need to admit it and she said "i'd be lying if I said i didnt want to make out with you."


SO apparently I have little game, but I will hang out w/ her again even though we're friends and she still wants to hookup with me in the near future. Is this not the most screwed up situation ever ? How the hell do I recover from this ? I'm not going to next her b/c i enjoy her company, as little time i do spend w/ her. Its like, she expects to like me more, she's very attracted to me, she thinks I'm gorgeous.

I do have game, just havent used it on her. She constantly made me feel uncomfortable w/ her strong personality, and the way she was. NOw im beginning ot get used to her and can use some game on her.

I really dont know what to do. Can I possibly recover from this situation ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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not gonna happen. I want to recover from this somehow. i want advice on how to do that.
 

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Stop worrying about what women say and base your actions on what they do.
 

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Thank you......thats actually very good advice........Next time i hang out w/ her, we'll see :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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