Screwed her interest so soon...

[Man XP]

Starting friendship with her 2 months ago, talked on daily basis and had a lot of fun. Thing's were getting awesome day by day, and we were getting to know each other more and more.

We shared all our problems and became very open to each other.

Now thing's have started getting downgraded since this month started. She's seems distant and talk less, and share less stuff with me.

After thinking a lot on this, I've realized that she's losing interest in me because of me being too much available to her. I always replied to her texts, attended her calls - within seconds. And as a result i became predictable.

So i talked to her about why she's getting distant and she says the reason is her studies so she don't get enough time to talk, else she is interested and like to want to keep the friendship.

I don't think it's the "Real" reason because if she used to talk allot then why not now. Her texts and body language still indicates that she's interested in me but she's spending very little time with me and we had not talked 1 day even.

Please give some advice's on how to regain her interest back. Are there any proven ways winning it back?

 

[Renegade357]

Nice job working your way into the friend zone dude. You were a good orbiter for her until she started getting uncomfortable with your intense feelings. Next time man up ask her out early. You can't friend your way into love.

 

[Man XP]

What i am asking here is, is there any solution to the problem or any proved tricks, games etc to bring back the old interest?

 

[Renegade357]

What i am asking here is, is there any solution to the problem or any proved tricks, games etc to bring back the old interest?

Wait 3 days. Call her up like a man. No texting like a girl. Ask her out on a date for 3 days or more out. Specific place, specific day, specific time. During the week, no weekends. If she says yes great. Don't contact her until the date. If she says no, maybe or is wishy washy I have good news for you. You can drop her. And there are millions of other girls for you to chase and actually do things right.

 

[Man XP]

She will most likely contact me within those 3 days, and agree, there are millions of girls.

Anyways, this same situation happened three times before too, she was losing interest, but i got busy in studies so tried to give less attention to it and then she started talking and all got well. It happened 3 times already. The only reason it happened i guess is that i gave too much attention too early.

 

[Renegade357]

She will most likely contact me within those 3 days, and agree, there are millions of girls.

Anyways, this same situation happened three times before too, she was losing interest, but i got busy in studies so tried to give less attention to it and then she started talking and all got well. It happened 3 times already. The only reason it happened i guess is that i gave too much attention too early.

You'll be alright. Everytime it happens just make sure you learn and do a better job the next time. Don't give away the store so early and don't try to friend your way into love.

 

[VladPatton]

Look, if you like a girl, there is no shame in stating that you are guy and find her attractive. You ask her out for something cheap like coffee and you escalate from there while never displaying neediness.

If she says no, flakes on you, well there you go, you have your answer, you know where you stand. All this is done in a very short time, not months and months of secret worshiping while she is getting jack-hammered Peter North style by some other dude and you are at home pullin your pud.

We all got shot down here, but we live to bang another day. Ask and you shall know.

Good luck.

 

[JohnChops]

So your in the friend zone .... she has NO SEXUAL INTEREST IN YOU AND.NEVER WILL. Sorry.man she sees you only as a friend. You said this is the third.time it happened well time to change your game up. Read the DJB and apply. And notice how when you put less attention into this.girl she came back to you? Mhm less is.more in the game.

Now read the DJB or the tips and come back here with questions. Good luck