Bull****. Truth is only way to get a woman is to take what you want. Dont be afraid of it. It is ok to want and desire a woman. But in order it all to be good you have to let yourself be desired too. When you desire a woman make sure you take her. Just being interested wont help./
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Screw women
- Thread starter becker
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My warped friend...
I disagree with you. I accept my desire for women, and I let a woman know I want her because how else is she going to know? I just stay away from seeming desperate that's all.
Becker I'm sorry but you can only blame yourself. Get a straw and suck it up, I take responsibility for everything I do. This sets me free and puts me in control. Everything that happens to me can be traced back to me so I can do anything I put my mind to.
I look at like this, you don't always have to play some nasty game. I started out by just being a Man. BTW I think the tests women throw at me are fun, I'm so good at passing them because I enjoy them and I don't mind being tested, but of course I wasn't successful in the beginning, it just takes time and practice. I try to think instead of react emotionally.
The best way to get a woman is to be BE A MAN.
You have most likely not discovered for yourself what it means to be a man because all you have heard during your life is that you must be "this way" or "that way" to get a woman. Well..you can blame our feminised culture for inflicting this damage on you. It has made your #1 focus "WOMEN". You need to evaluate why you are so focused on women. Is it because you just want to love a girl and you dream about getting married? Does it feel like your life is just going no place. Do you often wonder why you have not found your woman? Do you cry about this?
Well I HOPE NOT! suck it up!
Life is hard for a man and that is the way it should be! That is the first lession that everyman must learn. The more pain he faces the stronger he becomes. Learn to accept the struggle of life and let it test you. The pain that you are feeling is teaching you a valuable lesson about life.
First find passion within yourself to accomplish your goals. Then you will become strong. When this occurs you will have power and women will be attracted to it. Women know that your power is their freedom.
I recently had a girl tell me that I was so 50's. I laughed and told her that I agreed with her. Thus far she has givin me 2 BJ's in my car.
Also don't forget that there are two types of women. those that are worthless and those that prove their worthiness.
Ask any woman who is really happy with a the man that she has and she will tell you that she did what it took to get him.
You have most likely not discovered for yourself what it means to be a man because all you have heard during your life is that you must be "this way" or "that way" to get a woman. Well..you can blame our feminised culture for inflicting this damage on you. It has made your #1 focus "WOMEN". You need to evaluate why you are so focused on women. Is it because you just want to love a girl and you dream about getting married? Does it feel like your life is just going no place. Do you often wonder why you have not found your woman? Do you cry about this?
Well I HOPE NOT! suck it up!
Life is hard for a man and that is the way it should be! That is the first lession that everyman must learn. The more pain he faces the stronger he becomes. Learn to accept the struggle of life and let it test you. The pain that you are feeling is teaching you a valuable lesson about life.
First find passion within yourself to accomplish your goals. Then you will become strong. When this occurs you will have power and women will be attracted to it. Women know that your power is their freedom.
I recently had a girl tell me that I was so 50's. I laughed and told her that I agreed with her. Thus far she has givin me 2 BJ's in my car.
Also don't forget that there are two types of women. those that are worthless and those that prove their worthiness.
Ask any woman who is really happy with a the man that she has and she will tell you that she did what it took to get him.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.