Bull****. Truth is only way to get a woman is to take what you want. Dont be afraid of it. It is ok to want and desire a woman. But in order it all to be good you have to let yourself be desired too. When you desire a woman make sure you take her. Just being interested wont help./
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Screw women
- Thread starter becker
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
My warped friend...
I disagree with you. I accept my desire for women, and I let a woman know I want her because how else is she going to know? I just stay away from seeming desperate that's all.
Becker I'm sorry but you can only blame yourself. Get a straw and suck it up, I take responsibility for everything I do. This sets me free and puts me in control. Everything that happens to me can be traced back to me so I can do anything I put my mind to.
I look at like this, you don't always have to play some nasty game. I started out by just being a Man. BTW I think the tests women throw at me are fun, I'm so good at passing them because I enjoy them and I don't mind being tested, but of course I wasn't successful in the beginning, it just takes time and practice. I try to think instead of react emotionally.
The best way to get a woman is to be BE A MAN.
You have most likely not discovered for yourself what it means to be a man because all you have heard during your life is that you must be "this way" or "that way" to get a woman. Well..you can blame our feminised culture for inflicting this damage on you. It has made your #1 focus "WOMEN". You need to evaluate why you are so focused on women. Is it because you just want to love a girl and you dream about getting married? Does it feel like your life is just going no place. Do you often wonder why you have not found your woman? Do you cry about this?
Well I HOPE NOT! suck it up!
Life is hard for a man and that is the way it should be! That is the first lession that everyman must learn. The more pain he faces the stronger he becomes. Learn to accept the struggle of life and let it test you. The pain that you are feeling is teaching you a valuable lesson about life.
First find passion within yourself to accomplish your goals. Then you will become strong. When this occurs you will have power and women will be attracted to it. Women know that your power is their freedom.
I recently had a girl tell me that I was so 50's. I laughed and told her that I agreed with her. Thus far she has givin me 2 BJ's in my car.
Also don't forget that there are two types of women. those that are worthless and those that prove their worthiness.
Ask any woman who is really happy with a the man that she has and she will tell you that she did what it took to get him.
You have most likely not discovered for yourself what it means to be a man because all you have heard during your life is that you must be "this way" or "that way" to get a woman. Well..you can blame our feminised culture for inflicting this damage on you. It has made your #1 focus "WOMEN". You need to evaluate why you are so focused on women. Is it because you just want to love a girl and you dream about getting married? Does it feel like your life is just going no place. Do you often wonder why you have not found your woman? Do you cry about this?
Well I HOPE NOT! suck it up!
Life is hard for a man and that is the way it should be! That is the first lession that everyman must learn. The more pain he faces the stronger he becomes. Learn to accept the struggle of life and let it test you. The pain that you are feeling is teaching you a valuable lesson about life.
First find passion within yourself to accomplish your goals. Then you will become strong. When this occurs you will have power and women will be attracted to it. Women know that your power is their freedom.
I recently had a girl tell me that I was so 50's. I laughed and told her that I agreed with her. Thus far she has givin me 2 BJ's in my car.
Also don't forget that there are two types of women. those that are worthless and those that prove their worthiness.
Ask any woman who is really happy with a the man that she has and she will tell you that she did what it took to get him.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.