"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Screw online dating, Sosuave. I'm going direct!

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I used to be successful in the past with online dating. However, most of the girls were low quality.

I have had enough with the whales on POF, OKC, and other similar websites. Online dating will only make you feel insecure and weak. If you actually want to get some quality hb's I suggest you go direct.

The positive side of going direct is if it works, then you're golden. However, if she's not into you, then it's over and you get rejected. As long as you learn not to fear rejection, you will be fine. I rather be rejected in my face than to waste time sending out dozens of messages and receiving no responses. Always remember that getting rejected is better than not approaching. No approach is failure; you fail when you DO NOT approach. I'm determined to eliminate my approach anxiety regardless of how "painful" it becomes because regardless of how hard it gets, I know it will be less painful than knowing how I'm missing out on quality women.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've thought about this too. The women I have hooked up with from OKC have mainly been of low quality. There are just too few good women out there.

Once in a while a confident woman I've never met will make eye contact and smile in random situations. This is definitely the green light to simply ask her out directly.
 
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Im actually thinking about deleteing my OkCupid and POF profile for that reason. I met some really cute girls on there but most of them were low quality and just not worth it.

^^Strong join date Serg, what were u 14 when u found this site? lol
 
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golden words, brother!

Skrew online dating. Them good looking girls receive hundreds of messages from other guys, they don't even view most of them because there are so many.

However out there in real world, when you go direct it is just you and her. You will however have more success stories if you go direct after the girl noticed you and gave you IOIs
 
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Crissco said:
^^Strong join date Serg, what were u 14 when u found this site? lol
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Thats right! I was a lurker for a long time. And too young to understand/apply anything I read until I was maybe 18. Its amazing that I still come back here....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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